Intentions

From psychologist and author of Gaslighting​, a practical recovery plan outlining ten foundational steps to true healing
 
In Gaslighting, Dr. Stephanie Sarkis unpacked the manipulative behavior used by narcissists and sociopaths to make their victims question their own reality and keep their victims in their thrall. Now, in Healing from Toxic Relationships, she extends compassion and knowledge to anyone in the aftermath of an abusive or toxic relationship. Survivors often struggle to heal; their self‑esteem may be damaged, they may feel rage and betrayal, they may punish and/or blame themselves. Dr. Sarkis has seen it all: as a specialist in toxic behavior and personality disorders, she is on the front lines with survivors. Healing from Toxic Relationships helps survivors to understand the underpinnings of toxic behavior and how to move forward, tackling everything from getting self-esteem back, self-care, how to avoid toxic relationships in the future, and more. Dr. Sarkis' 10 Essential Steps are less of a one‑size‑fits‑all approach and more of an accessible framework for healing, one step at a time: 
 
           1.Block Contact
           2.Forget Closure
           3.Forgive Yourself 
           4.Establish Boundaries
           5.Talk to a Professional 
           6.Practice Self‑Care
           7.Reconnect
           8.Grieve
           9.Look outward
          10.Prevent: Keeping Toxic People Away
 
Anyone who is in a toxic relationship—whether it's with a romantic partner, colleague, family member, or friend—deserves a way out and a path forward. Dr. Sarkis offers help and hope.

These complex blends are made with magical intention - use them for daily personal wear as a reminder of self love, and as anointing oils for meditation, prayer, and ritual.

WOODS

Woods is formulated to connect you with divine ancient energy, balance, and protection. Use this oil when you need ancestral support and some extra grounding. 

Scent notes of sacred wood, smoke, warm cider, resin, moss, wet earth, crisp sunrises, the view from the top of the mountain, meditation, and dark green leaves. 

SEER

Seer is formulated to connect you with your inner wisdom, intuition, and joy. This is a bright and lush green perfume made in relationship with Baba Yaga, with all her trickster ancient wisdom. 

Scent notes of tobacco, dusk, warm spices, rain soaked woods, autumn, golden hour, trusting your gut, silk, and ancestors 

ECLIPSE

Eclipse is formulated to connect you with divine mystical energy, confidence, and sensuality. Formulated to help you take up space and be your full authentic self! 

Scent notes of delicate florals, red roses, dark chocolate, velvet, foggy mornings, sap, lit candles, holding someone’s hand for the first time, and hearth. 

Our perfumes are packaged in ⅓ oz dark glass roll on bottles. The base oil is silky smooth jojoba oil that is quickly absorbed into the skin, without leaving an oily residue.

Ingredients: Jojoba oil, Essential Oil Blend & Love. VEGAN

*due to supply chain shortages these perfumes will be in amber bottles

LETTING YOUR SHADOW IN a mindfulness deck for exploring big emotions

PEOPLE I'VE LOVED X Diving Deep Coaching, a collaboration with Susanne L'Heureux of Diving Deep Coaching on a deck designed to support you in feeling more authentic and whole. Letting the shadow in is about listening.

Instead of trying to overcome the parts of ourselves we deem unlovable, we welcome them so that we can transform.

Letting Your Shadow In contains 18 shadow prompts, 18 mindfulness exercises, 9 insights, and 9 affirmations to help you explore your own shadow and begin to see how it influences your life and relationships.

Bluebells are associated with transformation, new beginnings, manifestation and wisdom. They help bring harmony by improving intuition and communication. These Virginia Bluebells were gathered in the early morning and set under the daytime moon, then allowed to infuse in the full sun.

Flower essences capture the energetic and vibrational qualities of a flower or plant. They work on an energetic level, to address emotional or spiritual aspects of wellbeing. They’re made by delicately placing flowers into a crystal bowl filled with spring water, then set under the sun (or sometimes the moon), to allow the essence or energetic imprint of the flower to transfer to the water.

Bluebell flower essence can be taken as a daily elixir, or can be used during ritual or added to spell jars for love, attraction, manifestation, divination or spiritual wellbeing.

1 fl oz

a book of unique moon-based spiritual self-care, beauty, and wellness recipes to invite both spiritual and physical nourishment into your life. The recipes take your personal energy, goals and needs into consideration. Use the intelligence of the moon phases to discover your deepest desires and learn how you can channel your intentions into everyday self-care such as lotions and creams, oils and sprays, comforting teas, cleansing soaps, ritual baths, and more.

You can even learn how to create a new beauty potion for every moon phase or transit through a new sign. You will also find knowledge and inspiration for creating potions based on the zodiac signs as they apply to the moon, as well as special moon events such as blue moons and eclipses.

The Grief Companion is a beautifully illustrated and heartfelt resource designed to gently guide and support you through the complexities of loss and grief. This thoughtful collection features prompts, actions and insights that will support you through your ever evolving grieving journey. It offers grounding thoughts, meaningful ideas for honoring your loved ones, and reliable resources to help you navigate the shifting landscape of your emotions.

The book can be used in a number of different ways. Simply read an Insight, Action, or Prompt every day or week as part of a mindful intention, or during a difficult moment to be comforted. With The Grief Companion, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the grieving process, learn valuable coping mechanisms, and ultimately feel supported in your journey.

✿ playful curiosity  ✿ unfiltered optimism  ✿ Jupiter delight ✿

an essence for connecting to the innocence of wonder.

If life is feeling dull and unimaginative, if everything around you is uninspiring these days, work with chamomile to replenish. To find a spark of curiosity. This plant ally demonstrates a curious existence through a lens of joy and slightly reckless optimism- all vital characteristics for helping you invite in what lights you up. This blend was crafted to call in the bold vibrancy of living that the Sun can speak to fluently. To guide you into openness and curiosity and give you that reckless optimism that only Jupiter can truly understand. 

To use: 3-5 drops on your tongue whenever you're wanting to call in curiosity and play. 

Ingredients: essence of chamomile, essence of jupiter, squirrels chasing a blue bird, pear brandy, distilled water

A limited edition 2025 print by Seagrape Apothecary!

Use the Lunar calendar to track the New and Full Moon phases, the sign the moon is in, and how they affect your mood, cycles, and energy throughout the months. Plan spell work and rituals to nourish yourself and the collective, and remember always that your body is a sanctuary—an Altar. 

18" x 24" offset printed locally in Portland, OR.

*Please note that the calendars most often ship separately in a paper tube if your order contains other items.

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Have you ever kept a Lunar calendar? It’s one of my favorite things for tracking my moon cycle, mood, and ritual practices. Here is the rundown of a Lunar calendar, but I recommend doing your own research if you’re as smitten by it as I am!

The moon is in a different astrology sign every 1-3 days. The energy of that sign in turn influences the mood of the day. For example, when the moon is in Cancer you might feel like a homebody, wanting to stay in your PJ’s and tend to family matters (great for building Altars!). You’ll be able to intuitively feel into the wisdom of your body through the energies of the moon phases, related astrology, and magical practices. You can simply google what sign the moon is in on any given day or keep a planner to jot down your Lunar associations, though a Lunar Calendar is always an amazing magical tool to have around!

Here is a list of the Astro Signs and their “flavor” or common characteristics. Use this to develop your own spell work (hop on the Seagrape Babes membership site or blog to learn more if you’d like some guidance), track the way you are affected emotionally, or to help you tap into different parts of your body while journaling. Is the Moon in Taurus? Time to tend to your home and beauty principles by adding some soft, sensual textures, cooking a meal with magical intention (and herbs), sweeping with intention (with a beautiful broom, of course), or burning a grounding candle. Spell work can be anything you do within a magical mind frame- even making your morning coffee if you whisper an intention into it.

If feeling creative, use the qualities of the elements each sign represents to influence your journal prompts or create little rituals like elemental Altars for yourself. Browse the website for more magical ideas!

Signs and energies:

Aries- fiery, curious, adventurous, enthusiastic, creative, innovative, passionate

​Taurus- earthy, grounded, abundant, determined, steady, patient, beauty, love, sensuality

​Gemini- airy, intellectual, communication, adaptability, connection, networking, duality

​Cancer- watery, intuitive, home energy, protection, imagination, creativity

​Leo- fiery, creative, generous, joyful, embodied, confident

​Virgo- earthy, organized, reliable, practical, analytical, good at systems and planning

​Libra- airy, charming, beauty, balance, romance, the arts

​Scorpio- watery, shadow work, psychic abilities, intuition, passion, cord cutting, clearing

​Sagittarius- fiery, adventure, travel, philosophy, learning, optimism, luck, creativity

​Capricorn- earthy, practical, financial stability, planning, structure, discipline, building

​Aquarius- Airy, visionary, inventive, creative, humanitarian, outside of the box

​Pisces- watery, sensitive, psychic abilities, sympathy, dreamy, artistic, divination, intuition

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Wholesale stockists can order these beauties in sets of 15!

Tame your tresses with this bamboo comb, featuring smooth teeth to gently detangle and style all hair types without causing breakage or static. This comb is made from natural and biodegradable material, making it a great plastic-free choice for an eco-friendly hair care routine.

~~~~ How to Use: Glide the comb through your hair, starting at the tips and working upward to detangle and smooth.

~~~~ Care Instructions: Wipe clean with a damp cloth as needed, and store in a cool, dry place.

~~~~ What's Included: One Bamboo Comb

 ~~~~~ Dimensions Length: 7.4 inches Width: 1.9 inches

Tame your hair with this versatile bamboo dual comb, featuring both fine and wide teeth to suit all hair types and styling needs. Lightweight and durable, it’s perfect for detangling, smoothing, and maintaining a healthy, natural shine. this dual comb is a renewable and biodegradable alternative to plastic combs, reducing waste and supporting eco-friendly grooming practices.

~~~~ How to Use: Use the wide-tooth side to detangle wet or thick hair and the fine-tooth side for styling, smoothing, or parting.

~~~~ Care Instructions: Clean with a damp cloth as needed. Avoid soaking or exposing the comb to excessive moisture.

~~~~ Whats Included: One Bamboo Dual Comb

~~~~ Material: Bamboo

~~~~ Dimensions: Length: 6.75 inches Width: 1.5 inches

Gently detangle your hair with this bamboo wide-tooth comb, designed to reduce breakage and minimize static. Perfect for all hair types, including wet or dry hair, its smooth and eco-friendly design is both practical and stylish. Our Bamboo comb suits all types! Whether curly or straight, our Bamboo comb will make our hair routine easy and plastic-free.

 ~~~~ How to Use: Use the wide-tooth comb to gently detangle hair, starting at the ends and working your way up to the roots. Suitable for use on both wet and dry hair.

~~~~ Care Instructions: Clean with a damp cloth as needed. Avoid soaking or exposing the comb to excessive moisture.

~~~~ What’s Included: One Bamboo Comb

~~~~ Material: Bamboo

~~~~ Dimension: Length: 8 inches Width: 2.5 inches

A shame-free guide to personal wellness that meets you where you are.

There is no journal or exercise routine or diet program or self-help book that can deliver wellness. We are all just humans trying the best we can on any given day. But if you give yourself permission to take care of yourself emotionally, physically, socially, and spiritually - you might just feel a little bit better.

96 pages