Pleasure

The Hanky Code originated in the 1960s in a series of gay leather bars around Los Angles, California. The hankies functioned as a color coded system for communicating illegal or stigmatized sexual desires within the construct of top/dominate and bottom/submissive. While the hankies lubricated one’s navigation through sexual relations, the very existence of such strategically codified garments illuminates the grave reality of extreme sexual oppression and persecution during that time period. The use of the Hanky Code has trickled into the present with slightly less severe undertones, but our intention in illustrating, printing and distributing this new version of the Hanky Code was to remove its historical connotations of shame and fear entirely. The drawings assert sex and body positive visibility not only within queer enclaves but to the masses as well.

Hand silkscreened on colored bandanas with black and silver ink. Slight variations in color, images and sizes may occur. Approximately 13" square, with the exception of the mint hanky which is approximately 16".

The Code:

left (top/ dominant) || color || right (bottom/ submissive)

piercer | purple | piercee

fucker | navy blue | fuckee

wants head | light blue | expert cocksucker

fist fucker | red | fist fuckee

dildo fucker | pink | dildo fuckee

wants feet worshiped | coral | likes feet

2 looking for 1 | gold | 1 looking for 2

anything, anywhere, anytime | orange | not now, thanks

spanker | fuchsia | spankee

hustler | kelly green | john

CBT (cock and ball torture) torturer | teal blue | CBT (cock and ball torture) torturee

likes drag | lavender | drag queen/king

rimmer | beige | rimmee

cowboy | rust | his horse

heavy s&m top | black | heavy s&m bottom

suck my pits | magenta | armpit freak

bondage top | grey | bondage bottom

beat my meat | white | i'll do us both

pisser | yellow | pissee

mommy |mint green| wants a mommy

daddy |hunter green| wants a daddy

food fetish top |lime green| food fetish bottom

Our unique blend of oils creates a deeply hydrating moisturizer that doesn’t just sit on the surface like a typical store bought lotion, but penetrates deeply into the skin. Use this oil for massage, as a moisturizer after the shower, or a dropper-full added directly to your bath water for a luxurious and hydrating soak.

Sweet almond, jojoba, avocado, and olive oils are all easily absorbed, delivering a thirst quenching drink to dry, irritated skin - imparting lasting hydration, vitamins, and antioxidants. Use a few drops directly on skin as a massage oil, or after a shower while skin is still damp to help lock in moisture. Learn tips for self-massage on our blog! You can also add a few drops to bath water, elevating your bath to a moisturizing soak. 

Core is stirring, intoxicating, and complex. Blooming lavender and rosewood melt stress and tension, while clove adds spice and intrigue. A staff favorite, this lightly scented body oil will leave you weak in the knees, soft, and completely relaxed. 

Ingredients: Grape seed, sweet almond, jojoba, apricot kernel, avocado, coconut, soybean, and avocado oil. Vitamin E. Essential Oil Blend (rosewood, lavender, clove.) Dried Herbs (rose petals.) VEGAN

So why would you use a botanically infused bath bomb? Your skin is your largest organ and is a powerful tool for absorbing botanicals and balancing your system. As you soak in the tub, your body absorbs the essential oils and the botanicals, like a sponge. A botanically infused bath bomb is a full-body topical application that allows for unparalleled all-over relief. Every bath bomb is handmade with the highest quality ingredients, sourced in the USA and never tested on animals.  

SHIELD FOR IMMUNITY

Shield for Immunity is loaded with 100mg of botanical infusion and was created to provide a healthy boost to the immune system while offering a deeply soothing bath time experience. Inspired by the 15th-century legend of four thieves, we hand blend a powerful and aromatic mixture of clove, rosemary, cinnamon, and other natural botanicals. This combination is believed to provide a shield of protection by supporting and strengthening the body and immune system.

RELIEVE 

The ultimate combination of essential oils for maximum pain relief. Each oil is carefully selected to support the relief of sore muscles and aching bones while also lifting away the stress and offering mental clarity. The essential oil blend includes Clove, Birch, Rosemary, Coriander, Black Pepper, Tea Tree, Eucalyptus, Spearmint, Camphor.  

SLEEP 

Sleep Bath Bomb was created to provide intense relaxation and calm to allow for a good night’s sleep. The Frankincense and Orange essential oils combine with Lavender help relax the muscles and calm the mind. 100 mg. 

RELAX

Relax was created to not only relax the body, but to help stabilize the mood as well. A beautiful blend of Lavender, Chamomile and Frankincense come together to assist in the overall body and mind relief while giving your immune system the healthy boost it needs. 100mg.

Elevate your bath time ritual with love as the captivating blend of lavender, ylang-ylang, bergamot, patchouli, cedarwood, and sweet orange essential oils envelops your senses. 

Experience the wonder of Bubble Bear, the bubbliest of bubble baths. Add to running water to create a bubble kingdom and embark on your own magical journey with Bubble Bear. Enhanced with pure essential oils and MSM.

Great for kiddos + grown ups alike! 

Ingredients:

Coconut oil and hemp oil (saponified with retained glycerin), sodium coco sulfate, glycerin, essential oil blend, guar gum, MSM (methylsulfonylmethane), aloe vera, rosemary extract

Our massage candles are formulated with body safe & moisturizing ingredients. You can use them as a room candle, to infuse your space with warm ambiance and beautiful scent, and use the melted soy wax, shea butter, and oils as a warm sensual massage oil.

Burn the massage candle for 20-30 minutes or until oil pools near the wick, then extinguish the flame. Pour a small amount of melted wax directly into your hand and apply to sore muscles and skin. The soothing ingredients will leave dry skin feeling softer than ever, and massage is a great way to give your body some self love (or ask a lover to massage you - massage candles make for a great addition to date night!)

Ready to open the door to being your own best lover? This aphrodisiac massage candle is here to help remind you to turn self-care into a love affair through the sences. With notes of rose, coffee, and vetiver you're sure to swoon your way right into a very good night.

Limited edition handmade beaker is 2oz with a food safe pitcher for you to keep after your candle is done! 

Ingredients:Soy wax, Shea Butter, Avocado Oil, Coconut Oil. Essential Oil Blend (rose geranium, coffee, coriander, vetiver.) Love. VEGAN

These sprays were formulated with magical intention. Use them to mist your body and surroundings to clear your energy, before or after ritual or prayer, or any time you need a magical pick-me-up. Sprays are a great alternative to smoke cleansing tools like over-harvested white sage and palo santo. 

Ready to open the door to being your own best lover? This aphrodisiac mist is here to help remind you to turn self-care into a love affair through the senses. Simply give yourself a spritz behind the knees and across the collar bone and saunter on into your day (or work meeting) really feeling your sensuality!

Ingredients: A blend of rose,  geranium, coffee, coriander, vetiver. Spring water, hydrosol, essential oils + love. VEGAN

Lip tints are a great way to apply a light color - without the drying effects of a traditional lipstick. Seagrape lip tints are a rich, protective balm with healing oils and butters that will keep your lips super soft, and are tinted with all natural dyes and micas. They layer beautifully for a custom color. 

Spice is a lovely shade of lusty deep plum, with a luxurious soft shimmer. Spice is free from essential oils/flavor. 

Ingredients: Beeswax, Cocoa Butter, Shea Butter, Mango Butter, Coconut Oil, Olive Oil, Almond Oil, Castor Oil. Natural minerals and micas. 

Our massage candles are formulated with body safe & moisturizing ingredients. You can use them as a room candle, to infuse your space with warm ambiance and beautiful scent, and use the melted soy wax, shea butter, and oils as a warm sensual massage oil. 

Burn the massage candle for 20-30 minutes or until oil pools near the wick, then extinguish the flame. Pour a small amount of melted wax directly into your hand and apply to sore muscles and skin. The soothing ingredients will leave dry skin feeling softer than ever, and massage is a great way to give your body some self love (or ask a lover to massage you - massage candles make for a great addition to date night!)

Dark + Sexy Massage Candle is perfumed with a spicy and sweet essential oil blend. Ylang ylang is sensual and floral, while black pepper is spicy and herbaceous. Soft and sharp, dark and light, leather and lace… we find that opposites attract in the best way in this candle. 

Ingredients: Soy wax, Shea Butter, Avocado Oil, Coconut Oil, Vitamin E. Organic Essential Oil Blend (ylang ylang & black pepper.) Love. VEGAN

Sweet, smooth, warm, and spicy. This luxurious blend makes us think of cuddling up on Sunday mornings, soft blankets, lit candles, and maybe a sexy babe in the other room making us pancakes and bringing us coffee in bed. Cardamom, vanilla, and coffee blend together to make a sexy and restorative blend. 

Our perfumes are packaged in clear ⅓ oz glass roll on bottles, with herbs and botanicals inside to continually infuse the perfume oil with the healing qualities of the herbs. The base oil is silky smooth grapeseed oil that is quickly absorbed into the skin, without leaving an oily residue.

Ingredients: Grapeseed oil, Essential Oil Blend ( Cardamom, vanilla, coffee) Organic Herbs (cardamom pod.) & Love. VEGAN

Clear Quartz:

Let this deliciously magical pleasure wand take you away to a pleasure fuelled state of mind. Quartz is known for its amplifying and balancing abilities which will allow you to focus on your climax intently. This is the perfect crystal sex toy to create confidence, pleasure and positive energy throughout your sexual playtime.

MEDIUM SMOOTH: 7” long x 1” wide

LARGE SMOOTH: 7.5” long x 1.5” wide

CRESCENT: curved 6.5” long x 1” wide

Rose Quartz:

Use this token of love to reawaken your heart inviting romance and intimacy into your aura. As the rose quartz crystal dildo circulates deep into your core the succulent spirals tease your orgasmic sensations making it perfect for giving and receiving pleasure.

You will develop an unconditional love for your rose quartz massage wand while you delve into the various techniques this yoni wand permits. Whether you choose to use it internally or externally your entire body is sure to reach a state of ecstasy.

TWIST Medium Slim: 6" x .75"

TWIST Large Slim: 7.5" x 1.5"

MINI G Spot -wand: 5.5" in X .75" in

MEDIUM SMOOTH: 7” x 1”

LARGE SMOOTH: 7.5” x 1.5”

CRESCENT: curved 6.5” x 1”

Obsidian:

Not your ordinary crystal, our obsidian yoni wand works rapidly with intense power, pleasing and healing your inner being. Shielding you from negativity and connecting your root to your heart, this crystal dildo is like a silky glossy mirror allowing you to see deep within yourself for an orgasmic soul cleansing retreat.

Get ready for a fierce limitless journey with our obsidian massage wand as you explode with pleasure, your orgasmic awareness will flourish within your self and/or lover.

SMOOTH: 7.5” long x 1.5” wide

CRESCENT: curved 6.5” long x 1” wide

Amethyst: 

Amethyst cleanses your aura and transmutes negative energy. It stimulates the Crown Chakra and awakens your third eye, psychic gifts, and intuition. It helps with reducing over indulgence, and addiction. Amethyst helps to increase focus and a higher state of awareness, and promotes emotional centering.

Size: 
Medium Slim: 6.5" in length X 1" in width

 Green Aventurine:

Green Aventurine will lead the path to abundance and opportunity as you release negativity and energy blockages. Aventurine crystals are known as a stone of luck and will help you to manifest money while you luxuriate in setting your sex life on fire. This green quartz facilitates the release of old disappointments, habits, and patterns of behavior to make room for new energies that empower you as you blossom.

Size: 
Large: 7.5" in length X 1.5" in width
Medium Slim: 6.5" in length X 1" in width

• SPICE UP YOUR LOVE LIFE: This racy game of truth or dare features 50 sticks printed with a racy truth on one side and a dirty dare on the other.

• APPROACHABLE SEXY FUN: This game is provocative but approachable, offering a fun and easy way to explore kink and heat up your love life in the bedroom and beyond.

• EASILY PORTABLE: The petite tins are the perfect size to throw in your bag or luggage for a vacation.

• GREAT GIFT: If you’re looking for some naughty action, Kinky Truth or Dare is sure to inspire many passion-filled nights.

PREORDER- shipping the first week of September. If your order contains this candle we will pack and ship everything together.

Burgundy Soy-Wax Ritual Candle infused with Hibiscus Flowers, Lady's Slipper Flower Essence and Gardenia Essential Oil.
Use this candle to create or enhance a sexual spark, deepen the passionate energy of the second chakra, and expand into full embodiment of your sexual self.
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small- 30 burning hours

large- 120 burning hours

Formulated to have a warming/ cooling effect, this spanking powder can be used to prep the skin before the fun begins, leaving a silky surface for you to hit. Alternatively, use the powder to soothe your bottom's bottom after a spanking as a sweet form of aftercare.

Ingredients: arrowroot powder, corn starch, kaolin clay, essential oil blend (peppermint, rosemary, lemon, and clove) Love. VEGAN

Our massage candles are formulated with body safe & moisturizing ingredients. You can use them as a room candle, to infuse your space with warm ambiance and beautiful scent, and use the melted soy wax, shea butter, and oils as a warm sensual massage oil.

Burn the massage candle for 20-30 minutes or until oil pools near the wick, then extinguish the flame. Pour a small amount of melted wax directly into your hand and apply to sore muscles and skin. The soothing ingredients will leave dry skin feeling softer than ever, and massage is a great way to give your body some self love (or ask a lover to massage you - massage candles make for a great addition to date night!)

This unscented blend is perfect for babes with scent sensitivities and sensitive skin.

Ingredients: Soy wax, Shea Butter, Avocado Oil, Coconut Oil. Love. VEGAN + UNSCENTED

Indulge in this aphrodisiac trio. Created with romance, sensuality and amorous spirit in mind, this set is full of sexy luxuries. 

Soap:

Creamy and nourishing, Birth of Venus bar soap is made with indigo and blue clay to provide an intoxicating shower experience. 

Massage Oil:

2oz Dark + Sexy massage oil is made with an aphrodisiac blend of black pepper and ylang ylang. Enticingly spicy and sweet, this massage oil is the perfect way to begin and end a lovely evening. 

Roll on Perfume:

Indulge roll on perfume is sexy in a bottle. Earthy patchouli, sweet lavender and romantic rose geranium evoke a vintage kind of romance. Dab on the wrists and neck to ignite feelings of love, lust and attraction.

“I felt as if I had had a cathartic emotional experience not by talking but by following Ms. Roxo’s coaching to tune into my energy and desire.” ―New York Times

What if your deepest fears and wounds were the KEY to living a turned on, passionate life, sharing your gifts with the world, and having mind-blowing orgasms along the way? And what if you could embrace all of you―all of your messy, wild, raw, sensual self―exactly as you are right now AND still feel good? This is what it means to f*ck like a goddess―literally and metaphorically. To let life make love to you and enjoy every bit, even the parts that hurt, and to find the magic in all of it. And this is your birthright.

So why is it so damn hard for women to simply feel comfortable in their own skin, let alone feel strong and secure enough to freely share their gifts with the world? “Because each of us has been conditioned, programmed, and literally brainwashed into thinking we are not enough,” writes Alexandra Roxo,” and it is up to us to rewrite that story.”

A prominent voice in transformational healing and the divine feminine, Roxo shares tried-and-true methods that have led to both her own healing and that of hundreds of her coaching clients over the years.

“We are in need of an uprising of bold, wild women who have reclaimed their bodies and stand in their sacred sexuality for them,” she writes. “As women, we need to liberate our voices, step into total security within ourselves, and fully own our raw, sensual power, finally letting go of the shame, guilt, denial, and repression that’s been put upon us.”

The methods in this book will inspire you, challenge you, bring up your resistance, and unleash your gifts. It won’t always be easy, but if you do the work, you’ll discover what it really feels like to f*ck like a goddess.

As the Crystal Quartz Yoni helps you solidify the connection between the physical and mental dimensions it will open you up to balance, energy and protection that will free you to fully enjoy an increased sexual appetite and more intense orgasms. Be present in your body and allow your inner goddess to awaken so you can manifest the electrifying devine feminine being you are.

Large 38x50mm

Medium 30x40mm

Small 25x35mm

When it comes to sex, many of us have been sold on the idea that certain techniques and tools are surefire turn-ons. If those techniques don't work, and we don't connect with our partners or our own pleasure, then something is inherently wrong with us. But sexologist Jaiya has identified five erotic types that, like Gary Chapman's The 5 Love Languages, empower people with the understanding that we are each erotically gifted and that our differences are our strengths. Jaiya’s framework will help readers bridge the sexual incompatibility gap, become masters of their own sexual desire, and experience the deeper connection and sexual satisfaction that they crave.

Experience a radically inclusive and informative collection of stories, essays, interviews, and art about sex, relationships, and body confidence.

Have you ever had a question about sex—whether out of curiosity, desire, or the sneaking suspicion you’re, somehow, different? Every Body will help you feel less alone. It’s a huge collection of anonymous stories, essays, artwork, and expert tell-alls on myriad subjects, all rolled into one. Really, it’s the conversations most of us are too scared to start.

Thanks to talented duo Julia Rothman and Shaina Feinberg, we don’t have to. The stories, essays, and interviews they’ve compiled touch on a wide array of topics, including first times, open relationships, body acceptance, accidental pregnancies, sex toys, pleasure, fear and trauma, sexual discovery, and more.

Framed by dozens of artists’ illustrations, deeply personal interviews, and expert essays that address stigmas and clichés, this book is an informative, welcoming, and inclusive user’s guide to your body, no matter its shape, size, or preferences.

A dynamic group of voices and styles makes Every Body an essential resource and helpful companion as you explore your own body (and more!).

It's time to discover that the sex you have later in life can be far superior.

Reassuring, honest, funny, and most of all empowering, Great Sex Starts at 50 is the must-have sex and relationships book for men and women hitting half a century with little sign of slowing down. There's no denying that something happens to us sexually at 50. From menopause to the mixed blessing of Viagra to other challenges that go beyond the physical: How do you ignite desire after decades with the same person?

Thankfully, information and enthusiasm can help you reclaim a robust sex life—and greater health, as a result. In this easy-to-follow guide, Tracey Cox uses a blend of research, case studies, practical techniques, and personal anecdotes to show you how to arouse yourself and your partner, regain your passion, navigate relationship issues, and create the perfect conditions for sex. Tracey's authentic, trustworthy, and relatable approach will give you everything you need to do it!

An inviting and informative guide to sex for seniors, with a clear message that "as far as sex in the senior years goes . . . the best is yet to come" (Dr. Dean Edell)

Joan Price is talking out loud about a subject that is often ignored or ridiculed in our society: later-life sexuality.

In Naked at Our Age, she offers a candid, straight-talking exploration of senior sexuality -- the challenges, the disappointments, and the surprises, as well as the delights of love and passion. She shares the stories of women and men -- coupled and single, straight and gay -- demonstrating how their sex lives and relationships have changed with age, and how their sex lives influence their lives and self-esteem. Along the way, she offers wise advice from sex therapists, health professionals, counselors, sex educators, and other knowledgeable experts, helping seniors to embrace intimacy in all its forms
Entertaining and indispensable, Naked at Our Age is a complete guide to enjoying senior sex, love, passion, and couplehood.

Have a romantic weekend to plan or a babe to woo? We've got you covered! This perfect gift set includes everything from chocolate to a massage candle to get your sexy on and your senses engaged. 

This sweet gift set includes:

- Lavender Massage Candle

- Core Oil 2oz

- Birth of Venus earthy soap

- Indulge aphrodisiac soap

- Dark vegan chocolate (varies)

- Pre-rolled Herbal Smokes 

- Trio of sexy roll on perfumes: Cardamom Vanilla, Palo Santo Cedar, and Indulge

This racy game of Truth or Dare features 100 seductions that will heat up any couple’s love life in the bedroom and beyond. The red-hot box comes with 50 sticks to be pulled one at a time, revealing a sexy truth on one side and a dirty dare on the other. The perfect gift for those looking for some naughty action, Sexy Truth or Dare is sure to inspire many passion-filled nights.

From the editor of Dirty Girls comes a new anthology of steamy stories for women who don’t fit into a size zero—or two, or four—and the men and women who love them. 

In this voluptuously erotic collection, editor and bestselling author Rachel Kramer Bussel showcases the sensual side of having "more to love,” from the sexiness of big butts and plus-size corsets to the irresistible allure of pregnant bellies. No aspect of full-figured female sexuality is left unexplored, whether heterosexual or same-sex, raunchy or romantic, femme or butch. Bussel also includes seductive stories featuring characters of varying ethnic and racial backgrounds, exploring how different cultures approach size and eroticism. 

From trysts between long-time partners to one-night stands, from vanilla encounters to kinky romps, Curvy Girls is an all-inclusive celebration of the sensuality of larger women—in all their curvy glory.

For the 20 million women who suffer from painful intercourse: the first book to address the multiple causes and the available treatments.

Painful sex is a condition that causes embarrassment and silence -- often going undiscussed or misdiagnosed; as many as 40 percent of women who suffer from it won't seek medical care. And most medical professionals are still in the dark when it comes to women's sexual pain.

Now, three leading experts tackle the stereotypes, myths, and realities of sexual pain in this easy-to-understand, accessible guide that will help you get the help you need and deserve. Drs. Goldstein, Pukall, and Goldstein offer answers to your most pressing questions, as well as:

Up-to-date information on the more than 20 causes of sexual pain
How to choose the right doctor -- and how to interpret your doctor's lingo
Valuable tips for understanding sexual pain, and what can be done about it
How to rebuild sexual intimacy once the pain is gone

Featuring groundbreaking research and stories from women who've also suffered -- and recovered -- When Sex Hurts provides all of the tools you need to stop hurting and start healing.